When Elihu speaks to Job he tells him that Job should be looking at suffering as a discilinary measure from a loving God, not as a punitive measure from one's enemy. (Job 33:8-33)

Finally, the Lord speaks with Job. He charges Job with darkening counsel by words without knowledge. Job is a great and faithful man, but he is put in his place when God reminds him that he is nothing compared to Himself.

Job's final response is to humbly acknowledge God's ability to do everything, and that no purpose of His can be withheld from Him. He also confesses that he has spoken of things he did not understand, and beyond his ability to comprehend. Having now heard and seen God, Job abhors himself and repents (42:1-6).

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When God took away they very one thing that kept me grounded in my service, like Job...I prayed to die. I complained and complained days without end. I was depressed and hurt. I knew God still loved me...so my relationship continued, but my relationship with YFC was no longer. & even until recently, I continued to complain and get angry. However, in studying the Book of Job, the Holy Spirit made me understand that despite my suffering, my relationship with God was made stronger. So how can I complain about what happened when the end justifies the means (even though the ends was initially never known to man)?

...and although, I'd be one to judge and speak of the community in such an ill-mannered way...there are circumstances that I do not know of. and even though it was never made clear to me why I was asked to leave and I had to construct my own reasons, the truth is...if it hasn't been made explicit to me by now, I will probably never know. So I am faced with either continuing the unending road of anger and resentment or being humbled in knowing that I am in no place to say what is of God in a community that claims to be of Him. The truth is..only He knows, not me, HIM...& no one else is in the right place to say so.

it seems as if everyone fears death and is willing to avoid it at all costs, but in reality, no one cannot escape death; it's inevitable. if more people were focused on not sinning, little do they know, they could live forever. we need to start fearing death of the soul, more than death of the flesh.